- Be patient with me. My brain disease is beyond my control.
- Accept me the way I am. I still have something to offer.
- Talk with and listen to me. I can’t always answer, but I understand your tone of voice and expression of interest.
- Be kind to me. Your kindness may be the highlight of my day.
- Don’t hurry me. Each day I struggle to keep up and understand.
- Consider my feelings. I am sensitive to shame, embarrassment, failure, fear, and uncertainty.
- Treat me with dignity. I would treat you with dignity if our positions were reversed.
- Remember my past. Remind me of previous successes, value, worth.
- Remember my present. I am frightened. Let me do what I can still do. Break down activities into steps I can handle. Encourage me.
- Remember my future. I need hope for tomorrow.
- Pray for me. Your presence with me shows true compassion.
- Love me. And your gifts of love will be a blessing of light on all our lives.
From Duke Family Support Program